So about two weeks ago I turned 29. I got lunch at Applebee’s with a couple of my Philly friends, had a good grief cry in my apartment after they left, and then read books on my couch. All in all, it was one of my best birthdays yet. I love quiet time with myself and with people whose company I enjoy much more than flashy or effortful events, so even just spending time in my apartment with myself felt iconic.
One thing I’ve been processing with myself and in some of my previous blog posts is that my life isn’t perfect. For anyone with any ounce of mental stability, you may be thinking to yourself, Thomas, duh, how’d you even get a phd you stupid salacious sycophantic Gaysian sub, no one or very few people have a perfect life.
But for those who’ve read my blog for a little while, you know I grew up with an abusive mother, a financially supportive yet emotionally neglectful father, a laptop in which I used to write explicit Naruto fanfiction during my teen years (wait, this last one isn’t like the others…), blah blah. Continue reading